Reality Check

A famous person once said, “Reality can be whatever I want.” For too many people, this is true, for them. The ideas of perception, reality, personal truth, and fiction for many people are indistinguishable. We try to write our own histories and tell our own version of events, sometimes without much concern for what really happened. Perhaps if we can convince enough of our friends or family to believe what we want them to about us, we can even start to believe the lie ourselves. With enough work and commitment, reality can be whatever we want.

The problem is, this isn’t how reality works. This isn’t how truth works. This isn’t the kind of life that Christ has set before us to live up to. Instead, He calls us to live up to our own mistakes (Philippians 4:6-7), to confess and repent of our own sins (1 John 1:9-2:1), and to be committed to the truth that is God’s Word (John 17:17).

One reason this way of life is so appealing is because it can help us hide from accountability. If we can convince those in power around us and those who have authority over us what we want the truth to be, we can avoid the consequences of our actions. This may work for the people in our life, but people are not the only ones we are accountable to. We are accountable before God to “give an account of ourselves to God” (Romans 14:12) and we deceiving ourselves if we think we can make a mockery of God’s wisdom: “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life.” (Galatians 6:7-8).

On the other hand, God’s love and the work that He has done for us in Christ does reshape our reality. It’s just that we have to allow that new reality to also shape our hearts and minds. Paul speaks about this transformation in the book of Romans: “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” (Rom. 12:2).

If we are not conformed, but transformed, then the reality we should pursue should be one of peace, love, compassion, respect, and self-control. Peter calls this transformation “participating in the divine nature” (2 Pt. 1:4) and tells us our next steps should be to “make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love.” (2 Pt. 1:5b-7).

Therefore, reality & truth go hand in hand with the Word and the Spirit. Why do we want to cling to the darkness of lies and the webs of deceit when God has graciously given us everything we need in Christ.

If we say we have Christ, then it is the light that we pursue: “Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”” (John 8:12).

If we say we have Christ, then it is the truth that we pursue: “So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed in him, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”” (John 8:31-32).

If we say we have Christ, but do “not do what he commands” we have become “a liar, and the truth is not in” us.  (1 John 2:4). It is by the truth of Jesus, who He is, what He has done, what He is doing, that we have hope, we have a future, and we have the promises of God. That’s the reality I want.